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Would you please.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=0.6,3.03"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/2","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e Tell us your coming out story? Sure.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=3.99,5.85"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/3","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e So I'm going to say some stories about when I came out. The first was when I came out at school. I was dating this guy at the time, and I wasn't fully out to anyone besides just friends. And I wasn't fully out of school. Definitely not one of my family. And we started talking and we were still dating and it was going all right. But I liked him at the time. And I told him, you know, I don't want to be out of school or not yet, and I won't. And we're walking down this hallway, and he just tried to hold my hand and he's not letting go. So people started looking at us, looking at Mike and grabbing his. And it was obvious that they knew something was going on. And that was the first time I came out at school, which wasn't, you know, obviously consensual. It was just put on me to come out.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=6.96,60.51"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/4","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e How did that make you feel? Like in the moment when, um, you know, you're being outed and it's not even your idea? Like, what was your feeling at that moment?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=61.08,70.2"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/5","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e I feel hurt. I it's one of those things where coming out is so personal. You get to decide when you do it. I mean, it's. It is really personal. Like you said, you get to decide who, when, where and how. You know, you want to be in control of that. And not being control. Felt like someone has put out a secret of mine, which is exactly what happened. You know, especially the fact that I, I talk with this person about like, I don't want people to know at this point, like, I'm not ready. I'm not I'm I was still a little bit Shane at the time because, you know, you don't really have at that age, like at that age, I didn't really have a lot of like, queer role models to look up to, so I was a little bit ashamed of it. But I knew that like I wanted to stay safe above all else. And so and like someone that I trusted enough to date. You know, having them out. Me even though we had talked explicitly about, like, what I didn't want, which was I didn't want to be outed. I felt like someone who just, you know. Just completely broken my trust.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=70.56,130.88"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/6","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e Mm hmm. Um. Did you ever come out to your parents, your mother or your father? Mhm.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=132.77,139.78"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/7","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e So when I came out to my mom, what happened was um, we, she was just laying in bed watching, uh, a little soap opera. And I remember like going under a bad feeling, super nervous, heart pounding, and thinking you need to give her some more credit. You know, maybe she's going to be more okay with it. Like, you see stories all the time on online about people who were super scared, and their mom just goes, You know, I've always loved you and I'll always love you. And I'm so sad that, like, I did something wrong because it's like, you know, as a parent, you're supposed to make your child feel safe. And, you know, the fact that your kid would even feel scared of coming out to you kind of shows like you need to do some work or that or the child maybe needs to give some credit. But like, you know, you're really good parent if you do realize that your child's afraid and are able to see that and make it safer for them. But, you know, um, I forgot where I was going, but, um, yeah, when I, when I came out to my mom, it was just. Is that what the question was? Yeah. Okay. With your parents? Yeah. Yeah.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=140.71,206.38"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/8","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e What was the experience like? Love to see you guys. Your mom?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=207.31,211.03"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/9","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Yeah.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=211.45,211.45"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/10","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e So was your mom's reaction so far positive. And you saw it as.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=212.11,217.27"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/11","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e A positive or a negative? Well, it was I think it's still pretty negative because whenever I got onto the bed with her, I remember trying to, like, talk to her and kind of beating around the bush and finally getting the courage to say it and say, I'm gay. And her crying and making it about herself, saying, God, why me? Why did this happen to me? And I would say it was a pretty negative reaction, especially with the fact that I was hoping for something that would make me feel validated, like make me feel like I still have the same place in her heart as before. When you.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=217.42,251.08"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/12","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e Um, before you came out to your mom, was there anybody else that you came out to that Yeah.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=251.98,256.48"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/13","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Your experience or the first person I believe I came out to was actually my girlfriend at the time. Um, I don't date women anymore, so it was a long time ago. Uh, I came out to her. That was the first one. And our group of friends, um, I came out as bi at the time because it was sort of like, uh, I think people will be a little bit more accepting sort of thing, but that was the first person I ever came out to my girlfriend at the time. And like, I think it went pretty well because she also came out to me as BI and I don't know if she still identifies that way, but she did come out to me as my.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=257.01,293.72"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/14","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e Um, So when did you.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=296.14,299.83"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/15","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e Realize you identified with this community? Um, I don't.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=299.95,305.23"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/16","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Really remember. It's just feels like it's always been sort of thing I knew It's. I think it started pretty young when I started to realize that I didn't see, like, women the same way I saw men or that the same way, um, my other friends saw, um, like women around us. Cause I remember one day I was, I was on, like, my middle school soccer team, and, um, there was a girls team and a boys team. And I remember being on the boys team thinking like, Oh, I like this. This is fun, cause I did like soccer at the time. And at one point the girls team was practicing in another area. And one of the people on my team, when you and the girls looked down at, uh, my friend on the team and he just took down his shorts and like, mooned them. And I remember that everyone else was looking, oh, my other teammates were looking at the girls and their reaction. And the girls are going, Oh my God, what's going on? And I remember explicitly looking back down, I was the only guy on my team looking, okay. So I remember it was like sort of an instinctive, instinctive thing, like, why am I looking down here? I think, like, there's something more interesting about this then than the girls reaction.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=306.19,380.59"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/17","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e So you did you ever come out to your father or was your mother the only person in your family.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=383.26,388.54"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/18","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e That you come out? So I remember actually, after I came out to my mom, I told her, please don't tell my dad. I'm I'm going to talk to him. And the very next day I come back home from school and my dad's waiting on my bed and he's like, Your mom told me something about you. And I just remember thinking, What the hell? Like I told you explicitly so.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=388.89,408.61"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/19","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e They were so good. Just let it go.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=412.91,414.54"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/20","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e I told you explicitly not to tell him. And you did. And when I. I guess. And when I explicitly told her, um, you know, she violated that trust and told him, and when I got home, he was like, you know, son, you you are like this. I remember thinking, Yeah, that's the way I am. And he goes, You just don't know what's going on. Like, I was like, No, I'm pretty sure you because you think you know everything. You think you're so smart. And he's like, I've had friends that are gay. They've died, like, from diseases and get hurt. And, you know, you don't know anything about that. And I remember expressed like this is like one of the first signs of my dad. I said, You think? I don't know, but I'm the one who's had to learn this all on my own. I've had to seek out resources on my own, which is what a lot of our community has to do because of people like you. Like because you make it bad for me to come out like you didn't give me a safe area too. So I had to go and find those things on my own. Find friends like me, find, you know, resources that I can use. Like I may not know a lot. I may not know as much as you because you're, like, so and so years old. And, you know, you're definitely older than me, but God damn it. Like, I know more about this because I've lived it because I've had to. And you just cause you've had some friends me that you know, their entire experience. What about your siblings? How did they react? How did you put that together? Um, so my brother went to the same school as me, and, uh, he wasn't much younger than me, so we actually had some overlapping years in school. So I remember at one point, me and my brother got into a fight. The one, uh, the brother that's, uh, just below me in the family. Um, so we're pretty close in age. So because of that, when we get to fights, uh, sometimes we know exactly how to hurt the other person. And I remember he's really sensitive about his weight. He was doing something really dumb, and I got really mad at him, and I shouldn't have done it, but I remember calling him a fat ass, and he hated that because he was really sensitive about his weight. And before I can even, like, react, I hear him say, Well, at least I'm not a fucking. And he was about to say the F-word at a got word. And my mom came in right before he was about to say it, and I knew I could hear on his lips the FAA. And I remember my eyes going wide. And then he knew. He knows. And I shouldn't have been surprised because we went to the same school. I think I was just more like, uh, waiting for when he was going to say it. But he had it on his lips right then and there. Then my mom opened the door and he stopped. And I remember thinking you about to say it. You knew and you were about to use that against me. And you did it because my mom came in like. What the hell? So him? I don't know how he actually feels about it, but I knew my little brother knew for a while because, ah, the one below him pulled the other one I just had to fight with. Um, he knew, uh. I don't know how he figured it out. I think I may have talked to him at one point because he was, like, feeling really down on himself at one point. And, uh, my him and my mom had gotten into a fight, and he called her really? He called her shitty mom and she started crying and she went to her room and lay down. I remember taking him aside and going, You can do a lot of bad stuff, like a lot of stuff. And my little my the second brother, the one below me has gone into a lot of trouble, like in doing some really dumb stuff with his friends.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=415.11,635.26"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/21","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e And my other little brother was like, I can't be good enough for for my mom. And I remember telling him straight up, you can do a lot of.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=636.34,643.03"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/22","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Crappy stuff just like my other little brother has. Um, you can be really bad. You can get bad grades, you can be a shitty son, but you will never be worse than me because you're not gay.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=643.18,654.7"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/23","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e And I remember my little brother, the one I was talking to going, Oh, I didn't know you were. And I said.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=655.72,662.23"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/24","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Yes, I am. And you know what sucks about it is that you can be the shittiest son, the worst. But no matter what, my mom will always see me as lower than him. And he goes, That's not true. That's not true. And I'm like, Yes, it is. He's like, You're good, brother. I promise you. I'm sorry that, like, you know, my mom treated you this way. And so just know that I still love you and were crying at that point because I felt happy. That's when my family accepted me. I was like, Thank God. And then I remember taking him to my mom to be like, You need to apologize, cause I know that you think she's a shitty mom, but she was a shady mom to me. Like, you know, the way she may feel when it came out. So, you know, because she still loves you unconditionally. And he's like, okay, I got you. And so he went, and he went there while she was crying in bed. And I was like, Mom, he has something to say to you. So he goes up to her and goes, I'm sorry. And immediately my mom just got out of bed and hugged him. And I just remember feeling hot, rage like anger. And I walked out of the room and I cried harder than I ever have in my entire life. I cried for a solid 40 minutes and I couldn't stop. There was times when I couldn't breathe. I just remember crying, heaving, crying. I had to sit down. If I was going to pass out, I could not stop crying. And it was because she said, I'm sorry. She apologized for what she did. She had the capacity to apologize because she had hurt my little brother. And I were thinking, why am I not worth an apology? You know, like I, I ran away after I came out because I didn't feel like I was loved as a as a kid. You know, I ran away because I didn't feel like I was ever going to be good enough because I was gay. And I had gone through so much stuff like a while I was alone feeling like I had left my family, feeling like I was a burden on everyone, feeling alone as hell, having no family. And my little brother got an apology like that. I'd come out like two or three years before that already.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=662.56,797.21"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/25","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e And so I just. What the hell? It took me a while to, like, stop crying and.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=798.5,803.34"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/26","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e To actually, like, figure out what was going on with me and then my other little siblings. Actually, um, I have one little sister, and she's the sweetest person in the world. And then I have one baby brother who's like, He's a baby, so he's just, you know, really cute. But I remember driving in the car with those two. The youngest one's my little sister and my baby brother and my boyfriend and I called my boyfriend babe, uh, in the car. And my siblings are, too, But everyone's had two different reactions. Um, my little sister went, What is big me? And I said, Well, uh, and she's, she's young. She's, um, can I say ages? Uh, yeah, she was, I think around eight or nine at the time. And my baby brother was around three or four and. Sister when you know what is paid me. And I said, Well, I mean, so we're dating. And she just asked, you know, when did you start dating? I told you the story of how me and my boyfriend had met. And she went, Oh, okay. And she goes, So that's why you two live together. And I said, Yes, that's what she was. Okay. And that was it. It was so nice. Now, now she knows we're dating and she doesn't think anything of it. It's just something. It's just a fact. Um, she knew we were always together, but I think she was like, it's a label on it. Like my boyfriends and my little brother. His reaction was just cute because. And, you know, he heard me call my boyfriend babe, and he goes, What is babe mean? Babe, babe, you're babe. Because I think he thought it was an insult. So he was just a babe. And and me and my boyfriend just laughed. And it was it's nice being able to foster that, like whole acceptance and tolerance thing into someone from a young age. Because I know at this point, like, all he has to know is that, like.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=804.18,925.62"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/27","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e Me and my boyfriend together, that's it. Just no qualms about it. How has.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=926.16,935.25"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/28","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e Coming out?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=937.53,937.92"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/29","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e You've had good experiences and had some negative experiences.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=938.61,942.66"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/30","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e Does that influence?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=943.92,945.51"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/31","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e Like, Oh, I want to come out a person. But like. Maybe not. Or maybe.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=950.0,953.27"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/32","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e Yes, because I've had good experiences. Does it does that sort.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=953.6,956.21"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/33","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Of go through your mind's eye or I think are you kind of asking about it? Like, No, what I'm asking is like, does.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=956.75,964.04"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/34","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e It influence your decision whether to come out to someone that your previous experiences?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=964.25,967.85"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/35","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Yeah, because there are definitely other like extended family members that I don't come out to because my mom was one thing, you know, so close to her and we're still pretty close. We just don't talk about how I'm gay. Even I wish she would at least bring it up every now and then. But, you know, because of that experience and because I know that the extended family as well have been raised in the same environment, I think it's not worth the battle. I only see them every like, you know, two or three times a year. And if they say something, you know, homophobic, some helpful things, I can just leave if I really want to. So that experience, anything, is it worth it? Is it Yeah. Is it worth it? And sometimes it is.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856#t=968.81,1009.19"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56661/file/130856/transcript/44926/annotation/36","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e Sometimes it isn't. 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