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Can you tell me your coming out story?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=1.38,5.67"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/2","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Okay. So for like, my actual, like coming out, I guess, to my family of the majority of my family was coming through college and high school, I kind of knew I wasn't accepting of myself at the time. Me and this other girl had a thing in high school, but we went to different schools in college when I came to college. I had told her, I decided, like I want to do my own thing in college. Like, I think it's good for like, both of us, so, like, to be separated. Like, I think it's healthy that way. And then so recorder system, that was fall quarter and winter quarter. I saw the over break and I guess it kind of like reconnected and she ended up randomly calling her parents and telling them on the phone like I like she came out to her parents over the phone in another state. She went to school in Indiana. And then immediately I was like, well, I'm going to have to tell my mom because our moms are friends. And if your mom knows that you came out like I'll have to cell. So it's not really like something I had necessarily decided I did it more so because the girl at the time she did so I was like, okay, like I should because like, otherwise I don't want my mom to hear from someone else because I think that just is really hard for like my mom, I bet. So I called her on the phone. It wasn't in person. And so I called her on the phone and I said, Mom, I need to tell you something. I don't know how you're going to feel about it, but and I'm like crying during this time, too, because it's like such a big emotional thing. I don't know how you feel about it, but and I tell her I I'm in a like, I'm more than friends. I didn't say I was gay, but I was like, I have a thing with Gia. And I didn't know if you knew, like, the girl's name was Gia. And actually at the time, which is funny, I identify as bisexual, and so my family, when I came out, my family, I guess, thought I was lesbian this entire time, but they never clarified. I just told them I was with a girl and they're like, okay, you must be like lesbian. But actually, like a month ago they found out I was actually by my home. All my friends at college. No, I was by cause like, they actually asked questions and my family kind of didn't really ask questions. They're kind of like, Oh, yeah, like, we love you. Like, you're my mom's. Like, I totally knew the whole time. Like, I was just waiting for you to, like, come out and tell me. So that was, like, a relief. Like, I thought because I've heard, like, horror stories from, like, some other friends, like, their parents didn't react. Well, one of my friends, like she said, like, for example, like, choked her and pushed her against a wall. So it's kind of like nerve wracking, I think, coming out. But it was a relief knowing like, I haven't had like a really bad experience with anyone like my family. It's been like a learning process, like trying to like they want to know more about my sexuality. I feel like they're not as they don't question as much as my friends. I don't know if it's because they don't really want to know or if they're kind of like confused. I know my little sister was kind of confused about it. She's like, I grew up my whole life, like you like boys. And when I hear this, like, it threw me off. So I know she was kind of, like, weird with the whole being, like, by then. Yeah, but yeah, that's kind of my coming out story, like the big one to my family. And from there, I guess my the rest of my family, who wasn't like my direct family, found out through Facebook. I guess I never actually told them. They just changed my relationship status. And so I guess they can kind of assume after that. But I told personal friends, like in college, because I was more comfortable with myself, I finally came to terms that I was like, Hey, I'm bi like, because it took me like, I don't know, it was sophomore year in high school all the way up until my freshman year. So I was like, what, three or four years? So it took me like time. I don't know, cause I remember my family was pretty, like, upset. Like, why didn't you ever tell us? And I was like, I wasn't ready, like, with myself. So, like, of course, I'm not going to be ready to tell other people until I'm ready to like, except myself as, like being, like, bisexual and, like, identifying as that.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=7.2,240.3"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/3","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e So, yeah. Is there anything else you want to.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=241.44,243.36"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/4","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eUnidentified:\u003c/strong\u003e Add to that question? Um.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=243.42,245.82"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/5","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e I feel like I don't know. You continue to kind of come out. Like when you meet new people, it becomes a fun topic. They're like, Oh, like you dated a girl and it's like, Oh, you're bi. Like, how is that? Like everyone? Like, they're just like, kind of want to know more. So I guess, like, I don't know, it's a continuous thing, but like the first one I guess with my family I think meant the most because like they mean the most to me in my life. So it's like the most nerve wracking and scariest one to do. But yeah, and it gets easier, like because I'm like more comfortable and like how to respond and like, what's okay? Like, yeah.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=248.5,281.98"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/6","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e And what do you think is what drives you to be nervous? Like what drove you to be nervous in that moment? Like, what is it about? Like, what is it about the reaction that you were expecting or what you wanted to what what did you want them? I don't know. I guess more about What do you think made you nervous?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=282.55,300.97"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/7","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Um, with my family or just like in general, I was afraid they wouldn't, like, accept me. And they're, like, not want to talk to me like I thought because I kind of got caught in high school with her, like they thought kiss. And my mom yelled at me like she was like, What are you doing? Like, do you like girls? And she just was like, down my throat. And like, from then I was like, okay, like, this is never, like, coming up again. Like, I now know, like, where my mom stands. So I figured because she didn't, I figured, like, because of her reaction, she didn't support it. I actually talked about her about that with her like thing like I felt like you didn't support me and whatnot. And she said she was just upset because it happened at the girls house. And she's like, No, I just want the mom to think like, I don't know. She's more concerned with like how the mom saw us than like, how I was as a person. I guess it's like an image thing. Like, like she's okay with me, but like, the image of, like, how it portrays, like, on that family. But yeah, I was definitely nervous because, like I said, like, I hear stories, like people don't respond well and people are like when they're out in public, people will make comments into like, That hasn't happened to me, really. Like, no one's made any like nasty comments to me. So I don't know. I just really wanted my family to be okay with it. Like everyone was probably okay with it because I texted my sisters after to telling them and my to I have three sisters and my oldest and the one right below me were like, We love you no matter what. But my little sister, she was like, okay. And like, that was it. She was kind of just like, didn't say anything else. I was like, I don't know what that means, but okay, like, it wasn't a bad but it wasn't like a I'm here for you kind of thing. Like, not like I wanted that. But, you know, it's kind of like a different response. She took her a while to, I guess, warm up to it, which is understandable because she's the youngest one. So it's probably harder for her to like. Understand. Yeah.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=302.41,409.46"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/8","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 1:\u003c/strong\u003e Thank you for saying sorry.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=411.25,412.15"},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/9","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003eSpeaker 2:\u003c/strong\u003e Of course.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848#t=412.57,412.69"}]},{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932","type":"AnnotationPage","label":{"en":["English [Transcript]"]},"items":[{"id":"https://archive.empathyarchive.com/collections/1731/collection_resources/56653/file/130848/transcript/44932/annotation/10","type":"Annotation","motivation":"subtitling","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"https://d9jk7wjtjpu5g.cloudfront.net/file_transcripts/associated_files/000/044/932/original/open-uri20230706-255386-qqf060?1688667390","format":"text/vtt","language":"en"},"target":"https://d9jk7wjtjpu5g.cloudfront.net/file_transcripts/associated_files/000/044/932/original/open-uri20230706-255386-qqf060?1688667390"}]}]}]}